Many people feel that the perfect family is one which is always harmonious;however, psychologists tells us that the ability to make up after having an　　　　1．____argument is far more important to the health of a family than the ability toavoid arguments entirely. Some families even have frequent loud argumentsin that members of the family mutually offend each other. Such situations　　　  　2．____are very common among siblings who are of approximately the same ages.　　But the important thing is not that one family member is offended the conduct　3．____of another and gets angry. As long the two family members do not neglect to　　  　4．____solve their problem and apologize for their offenses, the family relationshipmay be strengthened by the incident. Therefore, parent who are bringing　　　　  　5．____up children should not be too upset when they fight and should just begrateful when they make up. They should remembered that it is easy　　　　　　   　6．____for people .who are only acquaintances and live apart to avoid problems　　　  　　7．____in their relationships. However, the present of love and affection within　　　　　8．____a family often leading to emotional arguments. Therefore, parents should　　　　 　9．____not feel obligated to stop each the fight between their children before it starts.10．____